Love Note #6
It can be very difficult to set and maintain boundaries with those we love.
My Dearest Friend,
Today, I have in mind all of you who are struggling to hold accountable another person in your life. It can be very difficult to set and maintain boundaries with those we love, or to whom we feel some sort of obligation. Undertaking this challenge can deplete our emotional reserves and leave us feeling tired, afraid, sad, or angry.
It may be that you are holding someone accountable for their good, for your own good, for the good of a third person, or some combination.
Whatever the situation, thank you for being willing to do the hard work in relationships to restore order where there is disorder. Thank you for persevering when things aren't perfect. Thank you for keeping an open heart but being firm in what you know is right.
My wish for you is that you are able to find peace in the face of this adversity... to feel like your efforts are enough... to find some space to relax your body and emotions.
I love you now and always,
John S.